If you message me off of anon, I can give you a bit more advice!
I was worried about the whole drinking thing as well. For the first party, I didn’t drink anything. But I learned that it’s okay to drink a little, but set a limit for yourself. Don’t let yourself get out of hand or you will embarrass yourself in front of girls that will be rushing you.
Each field party has a different theme/attire.
Hayseed and Ivy League, for example, are red neck wear! Woodstock, is tie dye and hippie! :)
I would not bring too much dressy clothes, I struggled with this too! I would bring one or two cute outfits!
Field party asker here again! If I attend, is it okay to drink as long as I don't get drunk? How cute should I dress?